Sunday, March 6, 2011

A SHORT MEMORY COURSE!




HOW TO REMEMBER NAMES





You just called the TV repair shop and the voice on the other



end of the line tells you "this is Don Smith". About 5 minutes



later you tell your wife that "this guy" will be out to fix the



TV in the morning. You can't think of his name although you



know he mentioned it on the phone.





This happens all the time to just about any of us unless we have



learned to concentrate and implant the name in our memory right



at the time we hear it. To do this you first must make a habit



of repeating the name back to the person. This action will



remind you to store the name in your "Memory banks" each time



you hear someone's name, and, within a matter of a short time



the "repeating" process can be discontinued.





When you meet someone in person use the same procedure, and in



addition, visualize something different, unusual from the



ordinary, or "ridiculous" about their appearance, position, or



actions that "ties in" with their name. You may have to put the



descriptive information on one side of a card or piece of paper



and the name on the other side for a while until it is imbedded



in your memory permanently. Look at it repeatedly, see the



"picture" in your mind's eye as you look at the name, or when



you see the name visualize the "picture" you have assigned to



the name.





Getting this system to work will require certain changes in your



thinking and it may take several days or several weeks to become



proficient. After all, you have developed a "bad Habit" over a



period of many years and it is difficult to turn it around



overnight.





This method also works with anything else work remembering, not



just names. When you have occasion to remember something, jot



it down and incorporate it into your list . . . No complicated



formula . . . Just a system that works with a little



concentration.





HOW TO REMEMBER ANYTHING!





As mentioned above a person may train their memory by



associating names with specific illustrations. This works just



as well with written information.





There are several key words or a key thought in each paragraph



of printed matter that can be associated with an illogical or



ridiculous illustration. It is much easier to remember and



recall ridiculous associations than it is to recall normal and



uneventful relationships.





As you proceed through any text choose one or several Key words



or key thoughts from each subject and relate the same to a



ridiculous cartoon or illustration. Actually "see" it in your



minds eye as it relates to the key word or key thought.





When you have occasion to remember a particular matter, the



"picture" should automatically appear to you and the entire



thought should be recalled. Be sure to SEE the ridiculous



picture associated with the printed matter you wish to recall.





As you proceed through a book, practice seeing a picture and



relate it to the key words or the main thought of the written



material. This method of learning should improve your ability



to retain what you read. With sufficient "practice" using this



method, many individuals will be able to develop a "photo-Type"



memory.





The Key to this memory system is to "see" the "picture" in your



"mind's eye". After you have practiced and mastered the system



and are able to get instant flashback recall you should be able



to read most any text material and visualize ridiculous pictures



to associate with the thoughts expressed in the printed



materials.





We suggest you prove this system to yourself. As you read the



first several pages of information, "see" a picture related to



the words or thought. It may be rather difficult to "see" at



first but by constant effort and concentration amazing progress



can be made. When you have seen the picture, just go on



reading the following subject matter and repeat the process.



Don't be concerned that you will forget the prior subjects!



They should remain imprinted on your mind and recalled later,



instantaneously and clearly.





After you have read several pages, recall the first few



"mind-pictures". If you originally "saw" the picture as related



to the key thought of the printed material, you should remember



the basic information.





Try it! It's interesting! After you have mastered this



learning system, it should be easy to file various programs away



in your memory and recall them as needed to progress in your



search for success.





MEMORY AND PUBLIC SPEAKING TIPS!





The same system mentioned on the previous page may be used to



memorize a speech by linking a series of thoughts to a series of



ridiculous pictures in sequence.





Proper preparation of your speech is half the battle. Know you



subject thoroughly then make an outline for the introduction,



main body and conclusion. Start your speech with something to



startle your audience into complete attention such as a weird



statement or funny happening.





In presenting the main body of your speech get the confidence of



your audience by letting them know you know your subject very



well. Get your points across without argument.





In making your conclusion you can briefly sum up what you have



just stated then end with a big bang; recommending action your



audience should take or suggesting they change their viewpoint



on the subject etc.; finalize with a joke that fits the



circumstances, or powerful word pictures they will remember



after they leave the meeting.





Make your outline in large print with plenty of space between



lines so you will be able to look up without losing your place



on the sheets. Rely on your memory for the most important



points, including the opening and closing lines.





Practice your speech with a tape recorder and in front of a



mirror before the meeting. Work out any apparent speaking



problems or things that don't sound just right. Know what you



are going to do with your hands and determine the better body



movements to go with your personality. Continually make eye



contact back and forth across the room.





Take time to think before answering questions. If you don't



have the answer, ask another question, refer it to someone else



better qualified to answer, answer in general terms, or change



the subject (like politicians do) complimenting the person



asking the "impossible" question, or by telling a "clean" joke.


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